Tuesday, June 9, 2020

Nutrition in Recovery


I’m so grateful that I’ve always had an interest in nutrition, because having the right diet is so important in recovery.  We are literally malnourished when we first get sober, and many of us experience symptoms such as insomnia, mood swings, fatigue, anxiety, depression, irritability, and digestive issues because of this.  Thankfully there are foods that can help with all of those Post-Acute Withdrawal Syndrome (PAWS) symptoms.  While we were using, we were stripping ourselves of the vitamins and minerals that we needed to maintain a healthy mood, such as serotonin, GABA, and dopamine.  When we give these nutrients back to our body, our mood is going to improve, and further, we will have more energy and a stronger immune system. 


In my earliest days of sobriety, I was incredibly dehydrated.  Unfortunately, I was not able to keep water down.  If you find yourself in this stage, I highly recommend drinking your meals.  Smoothies are great, because you will probably be craving sugar.  Load them up with yogurt and frozen berries.  The yogurt is great for your gut heath, and by pureeing your food, you are effectively pre-digesting it, so it will be easy on your tummy. Soups are also great for hydrating. 


A great trick for keeping cravings at bay is to keep nuts on hand.  They’re great for a quick snack if you need to avoid hunger-related mood swings and they are full of essential fatty acids that can help reduce feelings of depression.  Alcoholics are typically deficient in B vitamins, which are also found in nuts.  To add more B vitamins to your diet, load up on leafy greens.  My personal favorites are spinach and Brussels sprouts.  I make spanakopita (spinach pie) at least once a month.  I also love sunflower seeds, which are known to reduce alcohol cravings because they trigger a dopamine release in the brain. 


As an insomniac, I love cherry season.  Cherries have a number of health benefits, but I most enjoy them for their melatonin content, which helps to promote sleep.  For best results, I recommend eating them about an hour before you go to bed.  You can also sub tart cherry juice, or melatonin supplements, but I prefer to get it as naturally as possible.  Bananas are also good for sleep, because they contain L-tryptophan, which decreases the amount of time it takes for you to fall asleep as well as being a natural mood booster. They also contain potassium and magnesium, which are both natural muscle relaxants. 


Beans are my favorite food, not because of anything specific to recovering alcoholics, but because they are so great for you. They are known as a longevity supplement – beans are a staple in the diet of the oldest-living people in the world.  Most Americans don’t have enough beans on their table.  As a lifelong vegetarian, they have been a staple of my diet.  Many varieties, such as black beans, actually increase the beneficial bacteria in your gut.  Beans also have a ton of fiber, so they keep you full and promote weight loss.  They are also chock full of protein. 


Along with adding plenty of fresh fruits, veggies, nuts, and yogurt to your diet, try to avoid sugar that isn’t coming from fruit.  Like I mentioned earlier, smoothies are a great way to cope with sugar cravings.  The problem with sugar in early recovery, is that it’s going to keep those addictive pathways open in your brain and you’re going to get a quick sugar high, followed by a crash that will lead to feelings of depression.  You don’t want to feel depressed in early recovery, because that feeling will make you crave whatever you are detoxing from.  Caffeine is similar, treat it like a drug.  I suggest waiting a few months before reintroducing caffeine to your diet.  It seems to be fairly common for addicts to replace drugs or alcohol with food as a coping mechanism.  Now you’ve been warned.

Thursday, June 4, 2020

Maintaining Sobriety During Covid-19

It has been a couple of months since my last update.  I now have 281 days of continuous sobriety.  That's just slightly over 9 months.  I know that a lot of us have struggled to remain sober and work a strong program during Covid-19 because the lockdown kept us out of our Alano Clubs and other meeting places.  This forced us to isolate, as well as adding unwanted stress to our lives.  Conversely, I have been doing very well in my sobriety since this all began (around late March), and I thought I might share what I've been doing and why I believe I have been so successful.

The day that our club voted to close it's doors because of the Governor's orders, the first thing that I did was reach out to a member of my home group that I felt a connection with and I asked her to be my sponsor.  This is something that I probably should have done much sooner, but I had been dragging my feet, fearing rejection.  This was a great first step for me, and I've talked with her every single day since the shutdown.  I certainly don't recommend rushing to get a sponsor, because it's very important to find someone that you click with, but that's also not an excuse to procrastinate. I know that I wouldn't have been this successful without finding her in all of this.  Isolation is really bad for our addictions, and having somebody to talk with about the experience of being an addict during Covid has been an absolute lifesaver.  

Fortunately for me, my local Alano Club didn't miss a beat and took our meetings online via Zoom the day after we closed our doors.  I've been attending Zoom meetings almost daily.  At first I was hesitant about joining an online meeting, because I dislike using things like FaceTime, but once I got over my initial discomfort, I grew to love them.  Because I can log on from the comfort of my own home, I'm able to attend far more meetings than I was previously.  Also, because of the format, people are able to log on without video, so they can listen from work or while they are driving.  This made our meetings far more accessible.  I also volunteered to chair meetings for a week at different times, and that commitment helped to offer some stability to my schedule.

Another important step for me was reaching out to people that I didn't see at our online meetings.  Some people weren't comfortable with the online format, so they broke into smaller groups having meetings in people's backyards, parking lots, and parks.  Others just needed a little nudge to give Zoom a chance.  Helping other people stay connected was wonderful for my sobriety, because whether or not we ended up in a meeting together, I started conversations that have lasted throughout this experience, and I am now significantly closer to several members of the program.  I also reached out to friends of mine from rehab and from online AA forums, and was able to invite them to visit my home group online.  On top of reaching out to others, I began to read and post articles about addiction and strategies to stay connected through Covid.  This led a number of people in my life who I didn't know struggled with addiction to reach out to me and share their stories. Because of this we were able to help each other.  

A different problem caused by the shutdown was boredom caused by all of my extra time because I didn't have work, and a lot of the places I used to frequent were now closed.  Right off the bat I began to get more active with my dogs, taking them on frequent hikes and trying out different parks.  That kept things interesting for about a week, then I got bored again.  This was still pretty early in the shutdown, so I was still watching Tiger King and binge eating at this phase.  My boyfriend and I had both put on a few pounds and with summer just around the corner, we started to feel bad about ourselves.  We decided to purchase stationary bikes to get in shape.  This was such a great thing for us, because we had each other to help maintain the habit, and the exercise really helped me with my depression.  I also used this time to sign up for an online vegetable growing class through Michigan State University.  This turned into a longer term project, and now I have a large container garden full of veggies for the summer.  Eating healthy is key to having a healthy mood, and gardening is such a great way to get sunshine, which is another wonderful natural mood booster.  Vegetable gardening seems to be trending right now, and I highly recommend it for anyone who has the time.  There are several ways to grow vegetables without a yard if you are living in a city, so don't give up.

Obviously, not every day has been ideal.  The world has felt very tense, and no matter where you stand politically, things are very hard right now.  People around us are getting sick, the economy is suffering, and there are riots in the streets.  It has become stressful to even read the news.  I find over and over again that when I share these stresses and worries either in a meeting, or with my sponsor if it's too personal, I feel so much better afterward.  I had to find a way to keep peace in my life, despite what's going on in the outside world.  No matter what, do not isolate.  If you can't get to a meeting in person, there are several meetings available online.  Check out In the Rooms.  Go to r/stopdrinking and share what you're going through anonymously.  Find an online recovery group.  Call somebody in the program.  Whatever you do, don't do it alone.  
My first round of soil for my container garden.
My first round of soil for my container garden.

My dog Oliver admiring the sweet potato plants. 

Some new plants from the local farmer's market.